So a younger friend of mine has returned from a long sojurn to a nice tropical island far far away. I recently found out that he ended things with this gf of 3.5 years. This is sad, the thing that got me was how he was explaing how things were going and what lead up to the break up. My signifigant other and I then related to him some relationship goals. Things that every person should be working towards. Things that so many relationships dont even come close to having these days.
In doing that, it made me look at all the examples of great long lasting relatuionships that i have had the joy to experience. If i knew then what I know now.....how my relatiuonships would have been so different. Not that i am an expert in any way but i can see where we have gone so far healthy happy relationships to these sick twisted farces we call relationships.
One day i may write on thse things but rest assured I have found the map to a sucessful and very fulling relationship. Its not all the answers but it is the baisis for all the answers.
